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Welcome to Body Talk
from a Christian Perspective
with Cee Cee Michaela
Ms. Michaela does workshops for both secular and
She has presented her powerful speeches at hundreds of churches, schools and organizations in the US and abroad
Here are a few topics that many of the youth want to know about! Even at a young age, you would be surprised what your child already knows. Their friends, TV, CD's, magazines and videos have probably already demonstrated or misinformed them. You cannot shelter them from these issues... it is everywhere and it has gotten out of control! If they are ready to talk... then talk to them.
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The Lastest/MOST POPULAR QUESTION
If I am a virgin and i am just fooling around with my boyfriend who is also a virgin, can I catch an STD?
YES! There ia a possiblity.Oral sex can transmit HIV (the virus that causes AIDS), hepatitis B virus,, herpes, genital warts, syphilis, and gonorrhea. Other acts, such as petting, could possibly transmit some of these infections as well. Contact with infected body fluids (particularly blood, semen and vaginal secretions) is necessary for spreading HIV and hepatitis B. Therefore, touching and petting (without ejaculation) would not be likely to pass these viruses from person to person. However, the same is NOT true for genital warts or herpes. Only contact with the lesion is needed to spread these infections. Some times you cannot always see or detect an outbreak or the lesion. Sometimes they are hidden under the penis or inside the mouth.I am not sure what you mean by fooling around, but my definition would include some contact with the genitals. If you have been doing this, then there is some risk. Even if he or she is a technical virgin, if they have been performing oral sex with other boys or girls or grinding naked, you never know what they have contracted. Some virgins have a skin to skin STD and do not even know it yet!
Is Being a Virgin Cool?
Of course it is! You do not have to worry about catching sexually transmitted diseases, having unwanted pregnancies or harboring the confusion between love and lust. Having sex before marriage also clouds your vision and makes it hard to focus on your studies and goals in life because having sex is extremely emotional for a girl. Did you know that God designed every girl with a hymen, which is a little fold of skin on the inside of your vagina that partly closes the opening of the vagina. It is broken once a penis enters it. I pray that you do not have sex before marriage, but if you do...you may bleed the very first time and it may be quite uncomfortable. If you are a virgin...congratulations, your hymen is more than likely not broken and you do not have any soul ties or confused sexual emotions and urges. That is a very cool thing! Note: Every time you have sex, you become ONE FLESH with every single boy you lay down with! When you are a virgin you are totally free! -Genesis 2:24
Did you know that when you have your period, this is a time of cleansing? God designed women so that every month we flush out impurities for three to nine days. It is a discharge of blood, secretions and tissue debris from the uterus. Note: Tampons will not break your hymen. Try a smaller size first and take your time when inserting. Read the directions closely. They are easy to use and very clean. They have a plastic applicator which makes it very easy to insert. A pad, of course, is always fine but you will need to use a tampon when swimming or during gymnastic meets and pageants! Also, use the pads with wings, it makes your time of the month easier and cleaner and try not to wear white during your period. Darker pants are always best during this time.
Guess what? I developed very late too. I was always a lot smaller than all the kids at my jr high and high school. My period did not come until I was almost seventeen...talk about wondering if everything is o.k.! But eventually my period did come and when I got to college, I finally started really filling out. I concentrated on my school work and was able to get all kinds of talent and scholastic scholarships for college! Beyonce is much older than you...I remember when she first started out...she was about your age and she was not developed back then either. She was a young teen girl with a ponytail, lots of energy and a big beautiful smile. She has DEVELOPED into a beautiful young lady. You have to remember that she works very hard to maintain her body. You will develop...it's all in God's timing. So you just keep on eating all the proper foods, get an ample amount of sleep, drink water, and exercise and you too will develop into a beautiful young lady. Sometimes, we girls forget that what we DO have is the bomb like :a beautiful smile, energy, and a fun-loving personality. There are many people who look good on the outside but their inside is so ugly...just mean-spirited ya know. Besides, God says to concentrate on the beauty that is inside of you rather than all of the outer attractions that many young girls seem to be so worried about today. Check it out in 1 Peter 3:3-5
O.k. o.k...I hear ya! First of all, you must always honor your mother and father. You do not always have to agree with their rules but you must keep them and you MUST respect them. They know what is best for you. Your skin is very tender at age 14. Many girls are wearing the wrong kind of make-up for their skin type and they do not know how to properly apply it or wash it off. You have to be very careful when taking off the make-up as this is a lot of wear and tear on the skin. There is a whole skin care system that you should purchase just to take off your make up properly. Have you ever thought that maybe your skin is naturally beautiful so you really don't need make up. Maybe they are trying to hide something. Many young girls have low self-esteem and feel that the make-up makes them look better. Ask these young girls WHY they wear make up... you would be surprised at the answers you get. You sound very smart and confident! Ask your mom if you can at least wear a little lip shine, (NOT THICK LIP GLASS TYPE SHINES) with a little lip color for the summer! So keep God first in your life and keep sporting your natural glow.
-Matthew 5:16, Proverbs 7:20, and Proverbs 31:30
There is a wonderful story in the Bible and I think this is how God still intends for it to be. A young man who was a virgin and a young lady, also a virgin, got together and married. On their wedding night, they would have sex to consummate (or to make official) the marriage. Her hymen was broken that night. But, if something went down and her virginity was questioned, her blood stained sheets would be her proof. She presented the sheets to her father. Her father would then hold up the sheets to the judges of the city in honor that not only had he protected her as a virgin all of her life, but that she now, indeed belonged and was ONE FLESH with her husband and was indeed a virgin when she got married. When you walk down the wedding aisle, you have your verbal marriage vows which is "I do's" and a written agreement which is your marriage license, and a BLOOD COVENANT is always a blessing as this serves as protection, healing, cleansing, and honor for the marriage. Many marriages today do not have this particular blood covenant because some young ladies and young men choose to have sex (break the hymen) before they are married. -Deuteronomy, 22 :13-19 Saving yourself for marriage will help you to have less confusion, less emotional stress, no STDs and no unwanted pregnancies. You may also create soul ties or strong holds if you have pre-marital sex. A sexual strong hold is when the act of sex takes over and you just cannot seem to stop having sex no matter what. It is like the act of sex has a hold on you no matter who tries to convince you to stop, you can't. Breaking a strong hold sometimes takes much prayer and counseling.
-Deuteronomy. 22:21-29, 1 Corinthians 6:15-20 and 1 Corinthians 7:5
A lady should try to never have sex while on her period. This is her time of cleansing, so why would you let a penis or semen enter you at a time when your body is naturaly flushing the impurities out and through the vagina? Remember, STDS including HIV/AID is easily transmitted through blood. -Leviticus 15:16-19
If you are performing sexual acts with another girl, you ARE NOT a virgin. That is not virginal or pure behavior. There is still some sexual end results and in God's eyes... results are results whether you lay down with a girl or a boy.Know that you may be unsure and maybe even confused sexually,but ask God to renew your mind and to give you strength to know what is right from what is wrong according to the Word of God. Ask God what He would like for your life, listen intently and then obey. It is about what God thinks and what God wants...not what you want. You have to press into what is natural and God created a man and a woman to be together so that they could get married and then procreate or have children. -Romans 1:26-27,32 and Leviticus 18:22
My Boyfriend Asked Me for Anal Sex... I Told Him, "No" ...But I Could Not Give Him a Good Answer as to Why I Did Not Want to Give It to Him That Way... Can You Help Me?
The anus is where fecal matter (waste) is released. To place your tongue or a penis in that area is very dangerous as there may be bacteria there. Anal penetration can be very, very uncomfortable. Sometimes, we young ladies give up way too much. Besides, what kind of boy would ask you to perform sex in this way? I mean why does he like the anus? Where did this request come from in the first place? Never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Remember, God created our body parts for a specific purpose. So be sure not to misuse them.
I got a hold of a X-rated video (Porn) from a friend at school. I figured it would help me to learn some techniques for sex...what do you think?
This is when you touch yourself bringing about gratification....self-gratification. You usually have to look at something sexually stimulating or fantasize about something that will sexually stimulate you. Then you vainly begin to touch and love on yourself. I do believe that is why God made Eve. Adam was not there all alone in the garden just doin' his own thing and Eve was not all by herself handling her own sexual needs. Masturbation is a perversion of God's creation of sexual intercourse. Sex is for marriage ONLY! Now don't get me wrong, God created sex and so it is a beautiful thing. But it was created for marriage. To touch and rub on your own private parts is perversion.You have to create a lustful thought within your mind in order to even masturbate which is not of God in itself. Masturbation is a false form of sex! Wow... look at the enemy go...a lie,deception once again! -Ephesians 5:3-19, 2 Timothy 3:1-5 Also: some women masturbate to the point that they do not even enjoy their husband's lovemaking when that time comes! Ughh...satan at work again! Remember you may end up with a sexual release or climax of sorts which is the same release as if you had performed sex with a real person...no, this it is not pure behavior.
Young, unmarried ladies...all I have to say is... if you are taking them, read the fine print on the instructions. Read all of the side effects and find out what hormones or elements your pill consists of and why. It amazes me how some girls can remember to take their pill every day, but they can't remember to read their Bible. It is your body and your choice. Ask God what is best for your life. Ask him if birth control is in His will for your life right now. Abstinence is the very best birth control ever!!! -Proverbs 3:5-6 I do know that the word of God says to exercise SELF CONTROL. -Galatians 5:22 Try it! Maybe you can use self control instead of Birth Control. It is up to you. Have faith and believe that you are WORTH THE WAIT!
It appears that not enough is being done to inform people on the risks of contracting or spreading herpes. With the statistics showing that one in every four adults has herpes it reinforces this idea that not enough people are aware of methods to significantly reduce the spread of herpes. The statistics also show that a staggering one million new cases of herpes are discovered every year. This figure does not include the individuals that are unaware they are affected. In addition to this interesting fact is that more women tend to be herpes carriers than men.
Herpes (Herpes Simplex Virus) is usually spread by direct skin contact. It is not passed through the air but spreads via direct contact only. With herpes type 1 (HSV-1) if you have an open cold sore blister and kiss someone or even use the same eating utensils they could possible get the virus. With genital herpes, which is referred to as herpes type 2 (HSV-2), having unprotected sexual intercourse during an outbreak can spread genital herpes to your partner.
In rare cases, however, the primary infection may be very extreme, accompanied by fever, swollen glands and many painful sores that may last from two to six weeks.
Will douching, or washing right after I have sex keep me from getting an STD?
How long do I need to have an STD before it shows up on a test?
I had a Pap smear. Did they test me for STDs then?
Do some STD's have no cure? What About HIV?
Hepatitis B is an infection of the liver, and you can get it if you: have sex with someone who has the virus, share needles or drugs, share earrings, razors, nail clippers, or toothbrushes, pierce your body or get a tattoo when infected tools are used, or touch infected blood or bodily fluids. People can have hepatitis B without knowing it. They may feel fine. Or they may just feel like they have the flu. Even if you have no signs, hepatitis B can be spread to others. Some people do have symptoms such as: body pain, yellow skin or eyes, no appetite, feeling tired, brown or dark urine, and light or gray stools.
No, because this is not pure behavior! Please understand that your vagina is precious! Plus, the bacteria from his finger or the dirt under his nail could give you an infection. If he goes up high enough, he could also break your hymen with his finger! If you have herpes and he inserts his finger, he could catch herpes on his finger! Or give you herpes with his infected finger! Here is an example of herpes on someone's finger! The finger is actually a common place to get a herpes infection, common enough to have its own name - herpetic whitlow.
ABSTINENCEIS THE SAFEST SEX!
- Psalm 51:1-17
prayer for forgiveness
- Psalm 103:12
sins taken far, far away
- Pslam 136
lasting love guaranteed
all cleaned up
- Isaiah 43:25
sins forgiven-and forgotten
guilty no more
- John 8:1-11
forgiveness in action
- Ephesians 1:7
the riches of God's grace
- Colossians 2:13-14
- 1 John 1:9
promise of forgiveness